As a relationship coach I often get sent books by fellow authors for me to check out for my clients. Some are good and some are…well some I don’t tell you about because it’s not worth your time to read. One of the books I recently read, 51 Things You Should  Know Before Getting Engaged, offered thought provoking insight AND it was a quick read which you can skim in 5 minutes or dive in and spend a few hours with when you are ready to get honest with yourself. Whereas I don’t agree with everything psychotherapist Michael Batshaw says in this little book, I do agree that it is important to know what you’re getting into before you grab that ring. And ladies, too often you shy away from really important questions because “you’re in love” and it “just feels so right.”  Wake up and smell the heartbreak! Pick up this book, get answers to your questions from your man (and give him the honest answers from you as well) and find out if you two have what it takes for “’till death do us part”. You’ll be glad you did.